When You Know You’ve Done It Right

A couple weeks ago Mother Nature blessed us and I was able to spend a couple hours playing with my Cheval Canadien horse Riley. When we were done I returned him to his paddock and 4 pasture mates. After removing his halter I took a moment to just breath and share space standing next to him. I did a couple “go  away faces” and moved the front end over a step when he inquired about treats. I remained there, took a few more breaths, sniffed his yummy neck, turned, gently swishing my “tail” and left. The amazing thing to me was that Riley stood rooted to this spot for nearly 15 minutes.

Our time together had included some liberty play, a couple new and slightly challenging training exercises, riding up and down the hills of our driveway, practicing some lateral work, a few circles, walk, trot, canter transitions and a couple of new tricks taught with clicker training and treats. We finished up with a bit of grooming and some stretches. We had done quite alot and yes, there was even some sweat involved:) What was the most rewarding for me about the whole experience was that once released Riley didn’t run off to join the herd. He simply stood there and kept his attention on me, watching until I had almost reached my house up on a hill. The fact that he stood in that spot for so long, along with his body language, told me that I had done it right. I had shared quality time with him. We had conversations about what he wanted and what I wanted. I balanced out work with fun, learning and some positive reinforcement training. I always try to strike a balance because it is a partnership, not a dictatorship. Done right they should want to linger a bit, not immediately run off the moment they are released.   

As the pictures illustrate, Riley licked and chewed, shook his head to release and relax, then rubbed his nose on his knee, displaying that he had learned something. I just love experiencing how our relationship continues to grow and improve. If you are looking to improve your interactions with horses then take a look at the brand new clinic “Creating Harmony with Horse Speak” that I am co-teaching with Horse Speak founder and author Sharon, Wilsie. This April clinic is being hosted by High Horses TRC in Sharon, Vermont. Horses are provided so you need only to bring yourself and an open mind. This weekend promises to forever change the relationship you share with horses. Click on “Events” to learn more. Hope to see you there!

 

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